June 25, 2008

After the Fire

Ater the Fire: A True Story of Friendship and Survival by Robin Gaby Fisher is beautiful and moving. Grab a box of tissues before sitting down with this one. You will cry, (but I promise it’s in a good way.)

On January 19, 2000, a fire raged through Seton Hall University’s freshman dormitory, killing three students and injuring 58 others. Among the victims were Shawn Simons and Alvaro Llanos, roommates from poor neighborhoods who made their families proud by getting into college. They managed to escape, but both were burned terribly. AFTER THE FIRE is the story of these young men and their courageous fight to recover from the worst damage the burn unit at Saint Barnabas hospital had ever seen. It is the story of the extraordinary doctors and nurses who work with the burned. It is the story of mothers and fathers, of faith and family and the invisible ties that bind us to each other. It is the story of the search for the arsonists–and the elaborate cover-up that nearly obscured the truth. And it is the story of the women who came to love these men, who knew that real beauty is a thing not seen in mirrors. -(Official book description)

June 23, 2008

Fight Election Fraud

It shocks and angers me that there are so few journalists willing to step up to the plate and do their jobs right. Greg Palast’s investigative reporting is phenomenal. If only there were more like him.

Wonder how Bush won re-election? Lucky for us, Karl Rove and his stupid minions left a paper trail as they systematically targeted minority voters and threw their votes away. Millions of votes UNCOUNTED.

Where is the outrage? … We can’t allow this to happen in 2008. Do something about it. Share this video far and wide until the media can’t ignore it any longer.

June 20, 2008

TV and Video Game Free Week … So it begins (almost)

The Art of Learning: An Inner Journey to Optimal Performance is written by childhood chess champion and world champion Tai Chi master, Josh Waitzkin.

Waitzkin, who isn’t comfortable with the word “prodigy”, reveals not only his own personal history but his learning methods. He believes that his level of achievement is in reach for any of us, if we’re willing to learn how to learn.

The Art of Learning is inspiring and so captivating it is hard to put down.

Here is an article written by the author, reprinted with permission, about his new non-profit, the JW Foundation.

Multitasking virus in our Classrooms

by Josh Waitzkin

A few weeks ago, I returned to the classroom of Dennis Dalton, the most important college professor of my life. From the back of an amphitheater seating several hundred students, I realized how much things had evolved at Columbia and Barnard. The lecture hall was now equipped with a wireless sound system, webcams, video projectors, wireless internet. Students were using computers to record the lecture and to take notes. Heads were buried in screens, the tap tap of hundreds of keyboards like rain on the roof.

On this afternoon, April 16, 2008, Dalton was describing the satyagraha of Mahatma Gandhi, building the discussion around the Amritsar massacre in 1919, when British colonial soldiers opened fire on 10,000 unarmed Indian men, women and children trapped in Jallianwala Bagh Garden. For 39 years, Professor Dalton has been inspiring Columbia and Barnard students with his two semester political theory series that introduces undergrads to the ideas of Gandhi, Thoreau, Mill, Malcolm X, King, Plato, Lao Tzu. His lectures are about themes, connections between disparate minds, the powerful role of the individual in shaping our world. Dalton is a life changer, and this was one of his last lectures before retirement.

Over the course of a riveting 75-minute discussion of the birth of Gandhian non-violent activism, I found myself becoming increasingly distressed as I watched students cruising Facebook, checking out the NY Times, editing photo collections, texting, reading People Magazine, shopping for jeans, dresses, sweaters, and shoes on Ebay, Urban Outfitters and J. Crew, reorganizing their social calendars, emailing on Gmail and AOL, playing solitaire, doing homework for other classes, chatting on AIM, and buying tickets on Expedia (I made a list because of my disbelief). From my perspective in the back of the room, while Dalton vividly described desperate Indian mothers throwing their children into a deep well to escape the barrage of bullets, I noticed that a girl in front of me was putting her credit card information into Urban Outfitters.com. She had finally found her shoes!

When the class was over I rode the train home heartbroken, composing a letter to the students, which Dalton distributed the next day. Then I started investigating. Unfortunately, what I observed was not an isolated incident. Classrooms across America have been overrun by the multi-tasking virus. Teachers are bereft. This is the year that Facebook has taken residence in the national classroom.

Students defend this trend by citing their generation’s enhanced ability to multi-task. Unfortunately, the human mind cannot, in fact, multi-task without drastically reducing the quality of our processing. Brain activation for listening is cut in half if the person is trying to process visual input at the same time. A recent study at The British Institute of Psychiatry showed that checking your email while performing another creative task decreases your IQ in the moment 10 points. That is the equivalent of not sleeping for 36 hours—more than twice the impact of smoking marijuana. But to be honest, on the educational front, multi-tasking feels to me like a symptom of a broader sense of alienation.

I know what it is like to be disengaged. In fact, the crisis that played a large role in ending my chess career was rooted in becoming disconnected from my natural love for learning. Throughout my youth, I had been a creative, aggressive chess player. I loved the battle, and wild, dynamic chess felt like an extension of my being. Then, in my late teens a coach urged me to play in the opposite style, his style of quiet, positional, cold-blooded prophylaxis. Instead of cultivating my natural strengths, he boxed me into the cookie cutter mold he knew. In time, I lost touch with my intuitive feeling for chess, and without an internal compass I foundered in the swells of fame and high-pressure competition.

I see myself in the eyes of so many kids today. Too many primary, elementary, and high schoolers are being boxed into the mold of conformity required by big classes, competition for grades, tests with multiple choice questions. The first grader who leaps to his feet when he figures out the math problem is diagnosed as ADHD and medicated to sit quietly with the class. Young learners have immense pressure to perform, to get good grades, but no one is listening to the nuance of their minds. They feel suppressed, they are suppressed, and by the time students get to college, they have become disconnected from the love of learning. Then they are asked to read 1000 pages in a week and skimming is the only solution. Many of the students who actually were engaged in the Gandhi lecture, the ones who wanted to learn more than to shop, were taking notes on their computers in a frenzy, researching events online while Dalton described them, typing every last word of the lecture. But Dalton had already supplied them with a detailed course packet with all the relevant dates and facts. His classroom is an environment for reflection, introspection, and letting resonant themes sink into your being. Unfortunately, to these college students the notion of delighting in the subtle ripples of learning is almost laughable. Who has the time?

The societal implications of this educational crisis are huge and the issue must be addressed creatively. We cannot afford to lose a generation to apathetic disengagement. Part of the responsibility lies in public policies like No Child Left Behind, the standardized tests that are turning education into a forced march, and a culture that bombards us with so much stimulation that it is difficult to know what to focus on. But part of the burden also lies with parents, teachers and coaches, and with students themselves. I recently tried to persuade two smart 11-year-olds to give up video games for three weeks. One agreed to the experiment, and to send me a description of how the process feels. The other simply couldn’t imagine life without the PSP, even for a day. Here was an eleven-year-old self-proclaimed incorrigible video game addict!

This story has a happy ending. In the final month of classes, Dennis Dalton discussed the issues of multi-tasking with his students, and many responded. Last week when I went back to hear the final lecture of Dalton’s Barnard career, there were only a few kids surfing the internet—nearly all the students seemed riveted. Many told me they were relieved to have turned off their computers and relaxed into listening. A number of my old classmates came, and afterwards we threw a party for our teacher. After four decades inspiring college minds, he has decided to nip apathy in the bud by teaching younger kids. He will start with high school, but Dennis Dalton, one of our culture’s greatest minds, dreams of teaching kindergarten.

A note from Josh: Dear Teachers and Parents, I am researching the effect of video games on young minds. If you think it might be a healthy experience for your kids, please ask them to give up video games for two or three weeks, and write me about the experience at TheArtofLearning@gmail.com. Thank you! Josh Waitzkin

I had been planning to do a TV free week this summer, now I suppose that will include video games. After all, I’ve been kind of shocked at the amount of time that my once active and imaginative kids have been spending switching between Nintendo DS, to Gamecube, to old school Nintendo, to Wii Fit, to computer, to Leapster. I never used to have to tell them “Go play outside” this much.

While I know this will be a beneficial thing, I’m surprised at the amount of anxiety I feel about it. I just asked my kids (asked?!) if they would be willing to do a TV and video game free week starting today. (We had already agreed to a TV free week sometime this summer, though no date was specified.)

Nick, (9 years old), who was watching Spongebob, successfully bartered with me, stating quite logically that they had already watched TV and played video games today, so we should start Sunday.

When I posed the question to Julian (6 years old), I saw fear flicker in his eyes. He got a hold of himself and managed a casually disinterested nose crinkle saying, “Nah, I don’t want to.” Nick and I eventually managed to convince him.

Then Nick asked me, “Mommy, does that mean you won’t use the computer? That’s kind of like video games.”

I stuttered, “No, um, no it isn’t. I’m writing… important stuff… and reading…important stuff.” Nick graciously nodded knowingly, “It’s okay, Mommy. Never mind. You’re right.”

But I know I’m not.

June 20, 2008

My Pictures

I really, really, really hope that bad things don’t come in 3’s. If they do, I’m staying in bed tomorrow.

As I already mentioned, my A/C broke down. Well, today, my computer crashed. It was ugly. I spent all day in my pajamas sitting here messing with my laptop. (Well, that’s not out of the ordinary, except this was unhappy messing with as opposed to leisurely writing and reading and wasting the day.)

I will not say one way or the other whether I fixed said laptop, but one clue to the outcome would be the fact that I’m able to post on my blog.

The worse part of the day was when I decided, “I’ll go on the internet and figure out how to fix my computer.” … Duh. There aren’t even a set of encyclopedias lying around the house.

Does anyone even still own those? … I remember lovingly rescuing ones from the trash once. My Mom threw them away because they were in the basement when it flooded. Some of the pages were slightly green and musty, and besides, the “D” book wasn’t in good shape anyway. I had cut out pictures for a report on dog breeds.

Anyway, while cleaning and deleting in mass quantities, I came upon that lovely folder entitled “My Pictures”, which was my secret place for hoarding images. I have a slight obsession with collecting photos that I like off the internet. It was heart wrenching to delete so many. Here are a few that were too special to say goodbye to.


I like to look at this one when I’m feeling lazy. Makes it kind of hard to find an excuse not to get some exercise.


Forget West Side vs. East Side … This here’s my gang.


This is a “bibliomula”, a traveling mule library. The mules carry books to remote villages in Venezuela.


I have no idea where I found this image, whether it’s photoshopped or not, or who created it, but I love how it’s both weird and beautiful.


This one cracks me up every time.


Again, I don’t even know where this is from but I love the image. Look at her expression. I’m guessing the feelings are not mutual.


Michael Tracy is famous in the world of graffiti artists, but I’m partial to the image simply because that’s my name there on the train.


Not only is the image cool, but I like the symbolism you can read into it.


Cute… I mean, graffiti is wrong.


This is a “mola”, an amazing folk art made by the Kuna women of San Blas island, Panama. The women sew these to go on their blouses in all kinds of imaginable designs. Of course, now they make extras to sell to tourists and people collect them.

Alright, now show me a favorite image of yours. Post it on your blog and remember to let me know, or simply give me the link to it elsewhere on the internet.

June 18, 2008

Summer Money Saving Tips for Families

FREE MOVIES

I love Regal Cinema’s Free Family Film Festival. Most of the ones they’re showing, we haven’t even seen. You can’t get a better deal than that.

If you haven’t heard of these free summer movies, the website says:

When school’s out, kids around the country visit selected Regal theatres for the Free Family Film Festival. It’s a fun-filled nine weeks of movies for kids and parents. Since 1991, Regal has provided this service to the community, and best of all it’s FREE!

Selected G & PG movies start at 10AM each Tuesday and Wednesday during the festival. First-come, first-served seating is limited to theatre capacity. The Free Family Film Festival is safe, lots of fun and a great way for kids to spend a weekday morning in the summer.

Go to the website to select your state and find a theater near you. The films vary by location, but some of the movies they might be playing near you include:

Charlotte’s Web (G)
Flushed Away (PG)
Jimmy Neutron: Boy Genius (G)
Open Season (PG)
Wallace And Gromit (G)
Monster House (PG)
Mr. Bean’s Holiday (G)
Stuart Little (PG)
Everyone’s Hero (G)
Jonah: A Veggie Tale Movie (G)
Alvin And The Chipmunks (PG)
Doogal (G)
Pink Panther (PG)
Nancy Drew (PG)
Shrek The Third (PG)
The Second Junglebook (PG)
Hook (PG)
Curious George (G)
Bee Movie (PG)
Clifford’s Really Big Movie (G)
Surf’s Up (PG)
Arctic Tale (G)
Mr. Magorium’s Wonder Emporium (G)
Evan Almighty (PG)
Happy Feet (PG)
Water Horse: Legend Of The Deep (PG)
Fantastic 4: Rise Of The Silver Surfer (PG)
Firehouse Dog (PG)

and more! Spread the word to family and friends with kids. This is a great opportunity to have some fun this summer. Many won’t be able to afford vacations, but your kids won’t even miss it if they’re going to the movies every week!

Tip: Save even more money (and calories) by bringing your own healthy snacks and bottled drinks in your bag. Buy from the concession stand as a special treat only, and not at each movie. Also, don’t forget to bring $1 if you can. Regal Cinemas will often ask if you’d like to donate $1 towards charity when you get to the ticket window.

SUMMER READING PROGRAM

Check your local public library. Many of them offer a summer reading program that not only encourages children to read, but offers prizes. Depending on the library, your kids could receive a free T-shirt, coupons for free kids meals at local restaurants and things of that nature, or tokens which can be exchanged for free books. They also have free shows and arts and crafts throughout the summer. Last year, a zoo from the next state over brought many animals for the kids to see close up, including a porcupine and a penguin!

CASH IN THOSE REWARD POINTS!

Nearly every cloud has a silver lining. Think I can’t find one in credit card debt? Well, I can. Rewards points! … You may have accumulated hundreds or thousands using your credit card and not even know it. Look on your statement or call your credit card company to ask about it. If you’re not enrolled, enrolling is usually free. Once you have enough points you can exchange them for all kinds of things. With one credit card we exchanged them for a $50 check. With another credit card, we exchanged them for a $25 Blockbuster gift card.

CHANGE YOUR DRIVING HABITS

With the price of gas, you can save money by doing nothing; that is, not going anywhere and just staying home. I’m saving about $40 a month just by not having to take the kids to school during the summer. (Of course, they’re eating more than that $40 in groceries being home. SIGH.)

Anyway, if you do go somewhere, pick and choose a few of these tips to save gas. You don’t have to become an extreme hypermiler to get better mileage. Doing things as simple as making sure your tires have the proper air pressure and removing junk from your trunk, will save you money.

CHANGE YOUR AIR CONDITIONER HABITS

Depending on where you live, the weather can fluctuate wildly. One day it can be stifling hot and humid with temperatures in the 90’s. The very next day, an approaching thunderstorm may bring in a nice cool breeze. Keep track of the weather so you can turn off the A/C and open the windows once in awhile. Not only will you save money, but the fresh air is so nice!

Tip: For more ways to save electricity, click here!

CUT THE FOOD BUDGET WITHOUT GOING HUNGRY

Bargainist.com has a great list of 23 Ways to Save on Groceries.

One of my favorite new ways to save is to buy a baked chicken at the Wal-Mart deli. They cost a few dollars (basically the same price of an uncooked chicken, but without the work and they taste great!) We eat the chicken with macaroni salad and Hawaiian rolls for one meal and then there is still plenty of leftover meat for TWO additional meals. You can make some kind of Mexican dish like burritos, enchiladas or fajitas. You could make chicken salad sandwiches, Chinese chicken fried rice or Gumbo. There are probably hundreds of meals you could make with it. That’s 3 meals from 1 chicken!

Just search your favorite recipe sites for the ingredient, “cooked chicken” for some more ideas.

GO ON VACATION

Huh? How does that save money? Well, if you use one of the new bus services being offered, you will be able to travel to far away cities for much less than you can even imagine. I know of one that is currently charging $1 to go from Washington DC to New York, round trip. It sounds too good to be true, but these are becoming increasingly popular around the nation, and even into Canada. It’s totally legit!

Tip: For more information, read this article:
Beating $4 gas with a $1 Bus - TIME or search the internet for “$1 bus”.

VISIT MONEY SAVING WEBSITES FOR NEW IDEAS ALL THE TIME

Here are some of my favorites:
DoughRoller.net
The Dollar Stretcher
ZenHabits.net’s 106 Money-Saving Tips
MommySavers.com

Have a money saving tip I didn’t share? Please comment!

June 18, 2008

Because we have $300 just lying around waiting to be spent

The other day an elderly neighbor came over to visit me. When she entered the house she said, “Oh, that air conditioning feels so nice! Aren’t we just so blessed to have air conditioning? I wonder how people do without it. I feel really badly for those people.”

A few days later, the air conditioner broke.

I don’t consider myself superstitious, but I must admit, I felt she had jinxed me. Carlos and I never make comments like, “Our cars are running so well.” or “This is the best dishwasher we’ve ever owned. We haven’t had a single problem with it for 5 years!” Doing so will cause the evil spirit of broken things to come down upon us with a vengeance…. But we’re not superstitious.

Anyway, when things do break, we usually try to fix them ourselves. We’ve probably saved thousands of dollars over the years, so I encourage everyone else to give it a try. It can be intimidating but with all the resources available on the internet and a little elbow grease, you will be surprised at what you can accomplish. (And the sense of pride and gained knowledge is even better than the money savings.)

So, I went on the internet and researched my air conditioner problem. The pipe on the outside unit was frosted over with ice (and it was over 80 degrees outside, so it looked really bizarre.) The air conditioner was still running and a little air was coming from the vents, but it wasn’t cooling the house properly. The air wasn’t cold or strong like it should be.

So I did some troubleshooting. We turned the system off and then replaced the filters (Really easy and just a few dollars). We put new insulation on the pipe outside once it had thawed. (Again, really easy and only a few dollars.) We opened up the unit outside and washed it out with a house, following the instructions given on ExpertVillage.com. (That site is such a valuable resource for Do-It-Yourselfers. I encourage you to go bookmark it.)

We turned the system back on and it worked well for awhile, before the pipe froze over again. So we turned it off and did more research. We decided that we were either low on freon or had a freon leak - and it is against federal law for us to acquire freon or mess with it in any way. Time, unfortunately, to call a professional.

Well, we don’t have enough cash, and our credit cards are pretty maxed out, so we had no idea how to pay for it. We sat, sweating, wondering if we’d just have to make do. But then Carlos remembered that the company who fills up our gas has a special credit account for us and they do air conditioner repair, too.

Two days and $300 later, we’re good to go. It was what we suspected and the repairman was very friendly and helpful, giving us lots of advice on how to save money and take care of our system.

I’ll probably write a letter to the repairman’s manager, letting them know he did a good job. That’s a nice thing to do. You should try it. It gives you a warm, fuzzy feeling knowing an employee may get a bonus, or at least earn favor with their boss because of you. If you’ve ever taken time to write a complaint, you have time to write a compliment now and again, too.

June 15, 2008

My father, your father, and you - A Father’s Day tribute to Carlos

Carlos grew up amid civil war, the sounds of choppers and gunfire. At times guerrillas entered his home by force to take cover, bullets leaving holes in the cinder block walls. Another time, the government soldiers tried to round him up and force him to join the army, even though he was only a young teen. (His mother grabbed his arm and refused to let them take him.)

Carlos tends to be a private person, so I won’t say in so much detail, but war or no war, his family life was difficult at best. His parents provided strict discipline and he often did without even the most basic of things, such as shoes that fit properly. He was witness to many things a child should not be witness to, things that would haunt the dreams of even an adult.

If life hadn’t been hard enough, his father [pictured above with Carlos] was hit by a car and died when Carlos was thirteen years old.

After Carlos graduated from high school he came to the United States in search of the “American dream”. He worked his way up from nothing. He went from washing windows and living with his older brother, to learning English and owning his own home.

There were people along the way, who helped Carlos. Without them, Carlos may have still succeeded in life, but their sacrifices, patience, encouragement, assistance, love and prayers, are something for which we’ll always be thankful.

One of those people is my father. My parents took Carlos under their wing, treating him like a son. My father taught Carlos things that Carlos’ father was, in one way or another, unable to teach him. He taught him by example and through one-on-one instruction. Carlos learned from my father, practical things such as how to mow a lawn, light charcoal, and set up a 401k. More importantly he learned that gentle discipline works better than harsh punishment. He learned that compromise does not equal weakness. He learned that while there is a time to work hard, there should be time also left for play.

Carlos has bloomed into a wonderful father. His work ethic, he learned from his own father, is something I will always admire. He is the kind of man I know I can count on to take care of me and the children, no matter what the obstacles.

While the first few years of marriage and parenthood were rocky at times, Carlos has grown gentle, mature and compassionate. He is more patient with his children, slower to anger, and I thank God that my boys have his footsteps to follow through life.

June 14, 2008

Father’s Day Recipes

With money tight, as always, for Father’s Day we’re trying to be a little more creative in our efforts.

Carlos is actually working a full 7 days this week. He worked Monday through Friday at his regular job and today and Sunday (Father’s Day), he’s doing some farm work. He works so hard for this family and so even though we don’t have money to buy him a gift, we want to show him how much he’s appreciated.

Today my 9 year old Nick and I mowed both the back and front yards. He’s not yet home but I know he’ll be really happy when he gets here. After working all day in the sun, mowing the lawn is the last thing he wants to do.

Tomorrow morning before he heads off for work again, we’re going to make him a special breakfast. (Recipe below)

Ham Stuffed French Toast Sandwiches

Ingredients:

8 slices cinnamon raisin bread
4 thin slices deli ham
3 eggs
3/4 cup milk
1 tablespoon sugar
Nonstick cooking spray

4 tablespoons butter
Pancake syrup, warmed

Directions:

1. Place 4 slices of bread on baking pan. Cover each bread slice with 1 slice of ham; top with remaining bread slices.

2. Whisk eggs, milk and sugar in medium bowl. Pour egg mixture over sandwiches. Allow sandwiches to stand at room temperature, about 5 minutes, turning once, to absorb egg mixture.

3. Spray large skillet with cooking spray; heat over medium heat. Cook sandwiches about 2 minutes on each side or until golden brown. Serve each sandwich with 1 tablespoon butter and syrup.

Makes 4 servings.

When Carlos gets home from work we’ll BBQ some cheeseburgers with all the toppings he wants - cheese, mayo, ketchup, mustard, pickles, onions, lettuce, tomato and bacon. (It’s a special treat. His cholesterol has actually gone down with all the chicken we’ve been eating. Carlos says he’s ready to grow wings and fly away… I’m not sure if that’s funny in English, so if you’re not laughing, nevermind. I think it’s cute, though.)

And for dessert, Julian (6 years old), will be helping me make a chocolate pudding pie which is so simple and cheap to make, you’ve got to love it. (Recipe below)

Chocolate Pudding Pie

Ingredients:

1 1/2 cups cold milk
1 pkg. (4-serving size) Jell-O Chocolate Flavor Instant Pudding & Pie Filling
1 OREO Pie Crust (6 oz.)
2 cups thawed Whipped Topping, divided

Pour milk into large bowl. Add dry pudding mix. Beat with wire whisk 2 min. or until well blended. Spoon half of the pudding into crust.

Gently stir 1 cup of the whipped topping into remaining pudding; spoon over pudding layer in crust.

Top with the remaining 1 cup whipped topping. Refrigerate at least 3 hours. Store any leftover pie in refrigerator.

When you’re married with kids, sometimes the first Father to pop into your mind is your husband, but don’t forget your own Father! I managed to get a greeting card out in time, but we can’t afford to drive down and visit my Dad this year, though a peaceful afternoon without my kids running around his house may be a gift after all.

How will you be celebrating Father’s Day?

June 13, 2008

Summer Reads

I’ve got a stack of books I’m reading this summer. Some I’ve started, some I’ve finished, and some are still untouched, but it’s not even July, so that’s okay.

God’s Middle Finger: Into the Lawless Heart of the Sierra Madre by Richard Grant.

I originally picked this book up for research purposes. I was writing a story about a man who gets lost in the desert between Mexico and California, and so I thought it would be interesting to read a first hand account of what that general region is like. Well, I got more than I bargained for because this book was fantastic.

The author, Richard Grant, a British journalist, developed what he calls an “unfortunate fascination” with this region. He traveled the Sierra Madre as an “outsider” and a “gringo”, ignoring the warnings of those who told him it was a death sentence. Some of the characters he meets up with include drug smugglers, Indians, murderers, marijuana and opium farmers, folk healers, corrupt policemen, pistol toting children, and surprisingly, a gay man who makes a good living planning quinceañeras.

This is a good book for those who like travel non-fiction, fantastic writing and hilarious dark humor.

Dreams from My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance by Barack Obama.

You can say I’m being biased simply because I support this man for President, but I’m telling you in all honesty and from an objective point of view, this is one of the most engaging and well written books I’ve ever read.

Barack Obama is an incredibly gifted writer, finding the perfect balance between insight, intellect and the ability to weave together a story that is both poignant and perceptive.

One may wonder how a Caucasian reading this book can relate to the struggle and confusion of a bi-racial man, but the seeking of identity and desire to “belong” while staying true to oneself are universal rights of passage.

Reading this book that at times focuses heavily on race, only affirmed for me that human beings are more alike than different.

¡Caramba! A Tale Told in Turns of the Cards by Nina Maria Martinez.

This one I have yet to read but when I do crack it open, it’ll be while laying in the hammock with a margarita. Here’s the description:

Welcome to Lava Landing, population 27,454, a town just this side of Mexico, where Miss Magma reigns and rockabilly and mariachi music are king. Enter our protagonists, Natalie and Consuelo, self-described “like-minded individuals.” They spend their days at The Big Cheese Plant and their nights at The Big Five-Four, the hottest spot in town. But they have long-term projects, foremost among them to cure Consuelo of her unreasonable fear of public transportation and long car rides so they can finally take Natalie’s 1963 Cadillac convertible on the road trip it deserves.

Sounds kind of like a Spanglish Thelma and Louise. Weird? Maybe, but I like it. I have to admit the cover is what got me to pick this one up, but skimming through the the first few pages had me stifling laughter in the library.

Take this line of dialog for instance, “There was this little old guy trying to cross the street and he got himself runned over because some pervert was busy checkin out my nalgas. He was even usin the crosswalk.”

I can tell, this one is going to be good.

Free Food for Millionaires by Min Jin Lee.

I’ve just started reading this one. The plot is interesting but I’ve yet to feel connected to the characters, though they are already well established in the first chapter.

The book is Ms. Lee’s first novel and has gotten mixed reviews. From what I’ve seen, it seems you either really love it or really don’t. It’s worth the effort if it falls into that first category.

This national bestseller is the story of Casey Han, the American daughter of Korean immigrants. Casey has a degree from Princeton, a secret white boyfriend, an addiction to the finer things in life, but no job.

The overall themes of this novel include race, money, religion, love and overall, finding out what it is you want from life and not succumbing to the expectations of others.

The Blood of Flowers by Anita Amirrezvani.

In 17th-century Persia, a 14-year-old woman believes she will be married within the year. But when her beloved father dies, she and her mother find themselves alone and without a dowry. With nowhere else to go, they are forced to sell the brilliant turquoise rug the young woman has woven to pay for their journey to Isfahan, where they will work as servants for her uncle, a rich rug designer in the court of the legendary Shah Abbas the Great.

Despite her lowly station, the young woman blossoms as a brilliant designer of carpets, a rarity in a craft dominated by men. But while her talent flourishes, her prospects for a happy marriage grow dim.

Forced into a secret marriage to a wealthy man, the young woman finds herself faced with a daunting decision: forsake her own dignity, or risk everything she has in an effort to create a new life.

I’ve read a few chapters of this one and it’s a beautiful story that pulled me right in. It’s written with rich detail, believable dialog, and plenty of emotion.

What is on your summer reading list?

June 12, 2008

Greater Than You Think

Greater Than You Think by Thomas D. Williams is subtitled, “A Theologian Answers the Atheists About God”.

While I’ve never considered myself an atheist, even during the years I struggled most with my religion, one thing that has always been certain is my uncertainty. Faith is not my strong point, and so I often find myself reading books of this nature; books one would typically use to encourage a non-believer.

After reading this book I did not have any kind of great epiphany but I found the arguments well thought out and convincing. In a society that would increasingly have us believe that faith in any religion is a sign of weakness and naivety, this book offers reassurance that one can be both a thinker and a believer.